Why we are single? (the real reason)

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CarolSampaio

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i'm single as in not married, so i can post in this thread, right? lol

before i started dating my boyfriend, i had some unresolved issues, which is why i was single. God healed my heart and my self esteem. i had pretty much given into the idea that i was going to remain single for the rest of my life, and then i met my boyfriend.
Does that mean there's still hope for me??? :)

Feeling a bit better....
 
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Mitspa

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Any guy would be blessed to have either of you girls... I mean that :)
 
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CarolSampaio

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Awn... you guys are just so wonderful!! :) I'll try and really start believing that! :)

 
God said that it is not good for man to be alone thats why He created a partner for man, ie women. My understanding on this is not God's will for us to remain single. It is already in our DNA, ie that we need a life partner just like we need God and will start looking when in need.

To my narrowed mind, I think the reason why there are some single is because they had bad experiences either from their parent or themsleves. This I think needs to be counselled and resolved. Thank You.
 
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Lorna27

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Because i don't really make the effort to go out and meet new guys, i guess i think the right person will just come along out of change because were in the same uni class or because he's at my work. But in fairness i'm not looking for someone right now.
 
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gymnerd

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so when when you like to meet up? fyi I'm part fairy/leprechaun
We should probably meet up when there is a double rainbow, enchanted forests are much better with a double rainbow.
 
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I'm scared of making a mistake and ending up with the wrong person as I don't believe in divorce.
 

jsr1221

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I'm single cause I've accepted to be single the rest of my life.. Or until Jesus returns. Whichever happens first.
 

jsr1221

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God said that it is not good for man to be alone thats why He created a partner for man, ie women. My understanding on this is not God's will for us to remain single. It is already in our DNA, ie that we need a life partner just like we need God and will start looking when in need.

To my narrowed mind, I think the reason why there are some single is because they had bad experiences either from their parent or themsleves. This I think needs to be counselled and resolved. Thank You.
The Bible doesn't say all are called to be married, though.
 
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GodsGraceOnMe

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I would like to have companionship
 
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Bellefemmebeni

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Lol omg reborn this definitely made me laugh. They either hatedyour cookinor they think you're immature. I'd prolly jump in the cart myself and have you pus me as I wave my hands in the air saying wheehee wheehee. Haha
 
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Bellefemmebeni

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I think I'm single because I was so soft in my previous marriage and now I refused to let ppl walk over me. I stand my ground and enjoy being single at the moment so its hard to let ppl in. I guess an I fine the right one, it will be a piece of cake so maybe I'm single because I'm selfish...for once in my lie so I think I'm OK with that.