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  1. Dymes

    Will I ever get a good wife of Christ?

    If you have tied happiness and worth to a person who does not yet exist, you have already doomed yourself. Life is much more than marriage. Christ is much more than anything. Give more of yourself to Him. Serve in your community with children and widows. Get involved with something. Helping...
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    Any older Christian singles in the San Francisco Bay Area?

    Yea this may not be the site for you. I don't think people on here really have intentions of meeting. Again some do but it seem like the majority don't. I could be wrong. I haven't been on that long. But there are some that do know the Bible. Gotta do a little digging.
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    A question for the guys

    Honestly the only biblical answer is a guy that is willing to marry you. That's the only relationship that commands faithfulness. This "gf & bf" stuff we do can be a fling and technically is not biblical. Engagements were meant for the "getting to know a person" phase. Not this bf stuff. But our...
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    Epidemic of childless and miserable 40+ women

    Huh? Apparently I've misunderstood you. I didn't imply that sex was required for anything.
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    Epidemic of childless and miserable 40+ women

    Waiting sounds good when you expect to get what you desire. But if you find yourself at the end of your life alone, will waiting still be worth it? Will you be content if God doesn't give you a husband?
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    Epidemic of childless and miserable 40+ women

    An abomination? I wouldn't go that far. The most important man in history was single. Paul says it's good to be single. Ive found nothing in the Bible that suggest singleness is bad. The word abomination is used for things God hate. Celibacy is not one of those things.
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    Anyone here have a happy marriage after adultery?

    But how though? Those are just examples of Jesus doing something we seemingly can't do. From my understanding I can't judge a person heart, I can only judge their actions. Their actions generally tells what's in their heart. Hence "you will know them by their fruit". The fruit is the actions...
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    Anyone here have a happy marriage after adultery?

    How exactly do you look into someone's heart?
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    Christian Response to Evil

    Well said sir. As long as we treat the lost with the correct amount of respect, the correct amount of caution, the correct amount accountability, and the correct punishment, things would run a bit more smoothly. The problem is that the people in charge are mostly lost and don't know what the...
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    Christian Response to Evil

    Then I'd ask how do you treat wounded animals? Nowadays people treat animals better than people. Sick and hungry kids everywhere and people have the nerve to fight and protest animal shelter cruelty. So saying you would treat them like wounded animals in some people eyes could mean treating them...
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    Christian Response to Evil

    The Christian response is to pray for and preach to the lost. Understand that fish swim and act like fish and lost people do crime and act like lost people. That is ultimately the only kinds of people on this planet, lost and saved. A government without just judges or a government with very few...
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    Whether You Live or Die Depend on This...

    I agree with everything you said except im a little hesitant about the disease and sickness part. Sickness and disease does kill us. It does not care what you keep saying to yourself or to anybody else. If you drink a bottle of poison right now, I'm sorry but you will not be able to "talk" your...
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    Does God want me to masturbate?

    If one has the Holy Spirit dwelling inside him, then the spirit can be grieved (Ephesians 4:30) and quenched (1 Thessalonians 5:19). To grieve the Spirit is when we behave in a sinful manner, whether in thought or deed. To quench the spirit is to suppress the Holy Spirt's desires and let our...
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    Eternal Security: What do you do with James 2?

    Yes all of that is speaking of faith. Faith is not this one dimensional thing. It runs through everything and it is fueling everything. We can't just look at it in one way. Faith is the beginning of Salvation. Faith fuels us in our continuing sanctification throughout our lives. It's fuels our...
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    Eternal Security: What do you do with James 2?

    You seem to believe any man can just conjure up faith in God. Faith in God is a gift given from God. He doesn't decide if our faith is genuine, He knows who's faith is genuine because He's the One who gives us our faith. People can have faith in many things, but no man can truly have Faith in...
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    It’s Time To Know.

    True words. However in a lot of cases our definition of failure and Good is different from Gods definition. Which is a reason we struggle so much in trusting Him. God said to rejoice in suffering and that it is good. I rarely find people who think their sufferings are good for them. Imagine...
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    where am I?

    From what you mentioned I don't know where you are. The fact of the matter is you can be the perfect church goer and still find yourself in hell. Salvation is not about church attendance nor is it about these "experiences". It's about what you know, who you know, who you believe and trust in. Do...
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    I think I committed the unforgivable sin or did I

    That sin is committed by people who truly hate Christ. They hate everything He stand for and represent. Their hearts are hardened to a point that they would rather He be dead. They do not seek Him nor do they want to seek Him. They would never advise another person to seek Him because they...
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    Valuing animals more than people?

    1. God 2. Man 3. Woman 4. Child 5. Animal That of course is the proper order. Anything God does is good. But anything God does Satan seeks to destroy. All satan has to do is rearrange the order. Something as simple as putting the child second or putting the animal fourth. It will slowly create...
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    Would love other people's perspective-why does God give me mixed signals regarding my career?

    First off how much time do you spend in Gods word and in prayer? Second, never accuse God of sending mixed signals as if He is some double minded teenager. He is never the problem, it's always us. You are either reading things wrong or just putting too much thought in them altogether. I'll...