Thankyou, finally you seem to be understanding what I'm saying.
The difference is you have God saving us in order to save us. He doesn't have to change our nature (ie.human nature). Our human nature is found in our soul, created in the image and likeness of God. He's not looking to change our human nature, to do that would make us something not us. It's why the scriptures refer to us as souls and not spirits. Our souls are being saved by the transforming power of God's word. All souls ought to have the character of Christ but we don't because we were given free will. It's the price of freedom.
The sin nature is in the flesh, a corruption that seeks only to serve self hence, is against the Spirit.
Rom.7:23 &
Gal.5:17 That corruption cannot abide with God hence we are born with no spiritual capacity (God is Spirit) which, is why we must be born again. But we are not born wicked, we become wicked
if there were no grace and truth given (which would never happen because it's not in God's nature to withhold that which is needed)
or if grace and truth is rejected. This is the doctrine of total depravity. Apart from grace we are locked into our sin nature which deceives our minds and that keeps us in the dark.
Rom.7 God shines light into that darkness with the truth and grace enables a man to function
as if (just like Adam originally) he had no sin nature while the Lord presents Him with the truth. In this way who he truly is, a lover of righteousness or a lover of darkness, is revealed.
Jn.3:19-21 There are things we have to learn before we are even ready to hear the Gospel. This is why the Spirit is in the world teaching about righteousness, sin and judgment.
Jn.16:8 Those who
learn from the Father about righteousness, sin and judgement come to the light (drawn like a moth to a flame) and are given to Christ.
Jn.6:44-45
There are only two types of people in this world, believers and unbelievers. God meets us with grace and truth to reveal which one we are. There are believers out there who don't know they are believers yet which, is why we continue to preach the Good News.