There is nothing paradoxical about a sovereign being allowing free will to its creation.
If God can not allow this then God is not sovereign and that is truly paradoxical.
Paradoxical means there are two truths that seem contradictory, but are not;
when each is understood correctly, they may be harmonized,
so yes, God is both sovereign and permissive--which truth the tulipists think is contradictory,
but it isn't!
It is the reason:
God is just (
2Thes. 1:6a, cf.
Rom. 3:25-26 &
9:14,
Deut. 32:4,
Psa. 36:6,
Luke 11:42,
Rev. 15:3). All explanations of reality and interpretations of Scripture should conform to this certitude: “The Lord is righteous in all his ways, and holy in all his works.” (
Psa. 145:17) The Judge is just.
It would be better not to attempt an explanation of God’s Word than to state one that impugns God’s justice and love for all people (
Joel 2:13,
John 3:16).
Even the wrath of God is an expression of His love. Hebrews 12:4-11 offers the clue for harmonizing these two themes. This passage indicates that divine wrath is
intended as discipline: to teach people to repent of their hatefulness or faithlessness (
Pro. 3:12,
Isa. 33:14-15 Rev. 3:19) before they die, after which divine wrath will be experienced justly without the opportunity for repentance.
If a righteous explanation cannot be found for a passage, then it should be considered as historical or descriptive of what occurred rather than as pedagogical or prescriptive of how people should behave. Of course,
because God is loving and just, He does not tempt, trick, confuse or otherwise contribute to anyone’s sinfulness. On the contrary, God must be doing all that He can do without abrogating justice or volition (MFW) to influence people not to be deceived and become self-condemned (
Jam. 1:13-17,
Tit. 3:11,
Isa. 45:19).
This realization should steer us away from the problematic opinion (a la Augustine via John Calvin) that God predestines most people for hell and
lead us to affirm moral free will as a paradoxical fact (
Deut. 30:19). It is paradoxical, because it affirms both that God is sovereign and that God chooses not to control moral thinking, because doing so would nullify human responsibility for sin, making the biblical revelation of salvation based on repentance irrelevant and absurd.